“Should is an ordinary, everyday word -- except when it is used to indicate an order that may not be refused. Then should becomes a finger waving under the nose. …Should users build prison cells for themselves. They are so focused on what they should do -- that they cannot think about what they can do, what they might do in the future.” -- Dr. Arthur Freeman and Rose Dewolf
“To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart.” -- Pearl S. Buck