Kites are associated with spirits and the underworld and can show us how to maneuver in this realm.
Many mediums have Kites as their Totem when they begin to develop their ability to communicate with the dead. Kites teach the breathing techniques necessary to open psychic abilities.
Any time a Kite shows up, it is a signal to develop flexibility and adaptability. Kites are messages to use our skills.(Linsdomain.com)