Are you being true to that essence of infinite consciousness which is you? Are your actions its real intentions here on this mortal plane? Are you expressing its life purpose as you react to the 'external' stimuli you find all around you?
Are you really who you really are? Or are you merely being made the puppet by the separate selfish self? Can you tell the difference between your true self, which is the divine spark incarnate, and the separate self, which is the vibrational instructions that belong to the physical avatar that 'walks' the earth on your behalf?
Are you the human skin, the animal skin that sheaths your etheric essence? If so, that is not you. Being what is expected of you via ancestral traditional; via the demands of being part of the human society ... that is not the real you. The real you has to separate itself from what it does not want, or need to do ... and become the identity that the thoughts, and the perceptions, of the divine spark incarnate, creates.
The true self transcends ALL the human fears, and has the ability to be ITSELF. Without the need to draw any attention to itself. It just IS. And will always be. It exists on this physical plane to serve itself ... and its own purpose.