[Daily OM]: There comes a time in all our lives
when we may need to evaluate our relationships, making sure that they
are having a positive effect on us, rather than dragging us down.
Without realizing it, we may be spending precious time and energy
engaging in friendships that let us down, rather than cultivating ones
that support and nourish us along our path. Life, with its many twists,
turns, and challenges, is difficult enough without us entertaining
people in our inner circle who drain our energy. We can do so much more
in this world when we are surrounded by people who understand what we're
trying to do and who positively support our efforts to walk our path.
We can begin this evaluation process by simply noticing how we feel in
the context of each one of our close relationships. We may begin to see
that an old friend is still carrying negative attitudes or ideas that we
ourselves need to let go of in order to move forward. Or we may find
that we have a long-term relationship with someone who has a habit of
letting us down, or not showing up for us when we need support. There
are many ways to go about changing the status quo in situations like
this, having a heart to heart with our friend showing through example.
This process isn't so much about abandoning old friends as it is about
shifting our relationships so that they support us on our journey rather
than holding us back.
An important part of this process is looking at ourselves and noticing
what kind of friend we are to the people in our lives. We might find
that as we adjust our own approach to a relationship, challenging
ourselves to be more supportive and positive, our friends make
adjustments as well and the whole world benefits.