[Daily OM]: For many, life is a hodgepodge of
never-ending commitments. Yet few of us can be truly healthy or happy
without regular periods of downtime. While there is nothing inherently
wrong with busyness, those of us who over-commit or over-extend
ourselves potentially face exhaustion and burnout. When you feel
overwhelmed by your commitments, examining your motivation for taking on
so many obligations can help you understand why you feel compelled to
do so much. You may discover that you are being driven by fear that no
one else will do the job or guilt that you aren't doing enough. To
regain your equilibrium and clear the clutter from your calendar,
simplify your life by establishing limits regarding what you will and
will not do based on your personal priorities.
Determining where your priorities lie can be as easy as making two
lists: one that outlines all those obligations that are vital to your
wellbeing, such as work, meditation, and exercise, and another that
describes everything you do that is not directly related to your
wellbeing. Although there will likely be items in the latter list that
excite your passion or bring you joy, you may discover that you devote a
large portion of your time to unnecessary activities. To simplify your
schedule, consider which of these unnecessary activities add little
value to your life and edit them from your agenda. Remember that you may
need to ask for help, say no firmly, or delegate responsibility in
order to distance yourself from such encumbrances. However, as you
divest yourself of non-vital obligations that cause you stress, serve no
purpose, or rob you of opportunities to refresh yourself, you will feel
more energetic and enthusiastic about life in general.
If simplifying your schedule seems prohibitively difficult and you still
feel pressed to take on more, try imagining how each new commitment
will impact your life before saying yes. When you consider the hassle
associated with superfluous obligations, you may be surprised to see
that your schedule is impeding your attempts to grow as an individual.
Your willingness to pare down your agenda, no matter how gradual your
progress, will empower you to retake active control of the life that
defines you.