[Daily OM]: When we decide that it's time for
big changes in our lives, it is wise to ease into them by starting
small. Small changes allow us to grow into a new habit and make it a
permanent part of our lives, whereas sudden changes may cause a sense of
failure that makes it difficult to go on, and we are more likely to
revert to our old ways. Even if we have gone that route and find
ourselves contemplating the choice to start over again, we can decide to
take it slowly this time, and move forward.
Sometimes the goals we set for ourselves are merely indicators of the
need for change and are useful in getting us moving in the right
direction. But it is possible that once we try out what seemed so ideal,
we may find that it doesn't actually suit us, or make us feel the way
we had hoped. By embarking on the path slowly, we have the chance to
look around and consider other options as we learn and grow. We have
time to examine the underlying values of the desire for change and find
ways to manifest those feelings, whether it looks exactly like our
initial goal or not. Taking small steps forward gives us time to adjust
and find secure footing on our new path.
Life doesn't always give us the opportunity to anticipate or prepare for
a big change, and we may find ourselves overwhelmed by what is in front
of us. By choosing one thing to work on at a time, we focus our
attention on something manageable, and eventually we will look up to see
that we have accomplished quite a bit. Forcing change is, in essence, a
sign that we do not trust the universe's wisdom. Instead, we can listen
to our inner guidance and make changes at a pace that is right for us,
ensuring that we do so in alignment with the rhythm of the universe.