[Daily OM]: Children appreciate all that is
silly as a matter of course. Their grasp of humor is instinctual, and
even the smallest absurdities provoke joyous gales of earnest laughter.
As we age, this innate ability to see the value of silliness can
diminish. Work takes precedence over play, and we have less incentive to
exercise our imaginative minds by focusing on what is humorous. When we
remember childhood, we may recall the pleasures of donning funny
costumes, reciting nonsense poems, making up strange games, or playing
pretend. This unabashed silliness nourished our vitality and
creativity.We can take in this nourishment once again by giving
ourselves permission to lighten up and be silly.
Too often we reject the wonderful silliness that is an inherent, inborn
aspect of the self because we believe that it serves no purpose or is at
odds with the grown-up culture of maturity. We play yet we do not lose
ourselves in play, and our imaginations are never truly given free rein
because we regard the products of irrational creativity as being
valueless. Yet silliness itself does indeed constitute a vital part of
human existence on a myriad of levels. Our first taste of ethereal bliss
is often a consequence of our willingness to dabble in what we deem
outrageous, nonsensical, or absurd. We delight in ridiculousness not
only because laughter is intrinsically pleasurable, but also because it
serves as a reminder that existence itself is fun. Skipping, doodling,
and singing funny songs are no less entertaining than they were when we
were children. We need not lose all interest in these cheerful and
amusing activities, but to make them a part of our lives we must be
ready to sacrifice a little dignity and a lot of fear.
It is precisely because so much of life is inescapably serious that
silliness should be regarded as a priority. Through the magic of
imagination, you can be or become anything -- a photographer, a
professional athlete, a dancer, a pilot. Whether you take hundreds of
silly pictures, revel in the adulation of your fans as you make the
winning catch, boogie down rock-star style in front of your bedroom
mirror, or turn your desk into a cockpit, the ensuing hilarity will help
you see that lighthearted fun and adulthood are not at all
incompatible.