It can be challenging to maintain a
positive attitude and a measure of faith when you are in the midst of
difficult times. This is partly because we tend to think that if the
universe loves us, we will experience that love in the form of positive
circumstances. However, we are like children, and the universe is our
wise mother who knows what our souls need to thrive better than we do.
Just as a young child does not benefit from getting everything she
wants, we also benefit from times of constriction and difficulty that
help us grow and learn. If we keep this in mind and continue to trust
that we are loved even when things are hard, it helps us bear the
difficult times with grace.
This period of time in history is full of difficulty for a lot of human
beings, and you may feel less alone knowing you are not being singled
out. There are extreme energy changes pulsing through the universe at
every level, and we are all part of the growing process -- and the
growing pains. It helps if we remember that life is one phase after
another and that this difficult time will inevitably give way to
something new and different. When we feel overwhelmed, we can comfort
ourselves with the wise saying this too shall pass.
At the same time, if you truly feel that nothing is going right for you,
it's never a bad idea to examine your life and see if there are some
changes you can make to alleviate some of the difficulty. Gently and
compassionately exploring the areas giving you the most trouble may
reveal things you are holding on to and need to release: unprocessed
emotions, unresolved transitions, or negative ways of looking at
yourself or reality. As you take responsibility for the things you can
change, you can more easily surrender to the things you can't,
remembering all the while that this phase will, without doubt, give way
to another.(Daily OM)