When you establish a relationship with someone (of any kind), you form two energetic structures with that person. The first one is a structure containing the unconditional love and the soul-level bond between you two. The second is a structure which contains all the negative patterns and dynamics of your relationship. This is the one that we call the cord of attachment. There is nothing positive about this attachment. You contribute patterns into that cord, and the other person does too. Those patterns of emotion, thought and behaviour circulate in that cord, until you cut it. And that cord is connected to your aura, so the energies of the cord enter your aura 24/7 and affect you subconsciously in a variety of ways. Cords don’t just drain your energy. They send negative patterns back and forth between you both, and into your aura. Traumas can circulate in them, leaving you feeling haunted by them (for want of a better word). They can also cause you to choose relationships and experiences that you wouldn’t otherwise because they predispose you to act in a certain way.
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