When our lives are going well, and
sometimes even when they aren't, we may find ourselves feeling very
attached to the status quo of our existence -- life as we know it. It is
a very human tendency to resist change as though it were possible to
simply decide not to do it, or have it in our lives. But change will
come and the status quo will go, sooner or later, with our consent or
without it. We may find at the end of the day that we feel considerably
more empowered when we find the courage to ally ourselves with the
universal force of change, rather than working against it.
Of course, the answer is not to go about changing things at random,
without regard to whether they are working or not. There is a time and
place for stability and the preservation of what has been gained over
time. In fact, the ability to stabilize and preserve what is serving us
is part of what helps us to survive and thrive. The problem comes when
we become more attached to preserving the status quo than to honoring
the universal givens of growth and change. For example, if we allow a
situation we are in to remain stagnant simply because we are
comfortable, it may be time for us to summon up the courage to challenge
the status quo.
This may be painful at times, or surprisingly liberating, and it will
most likely be a little of both. Underneath the discomfort, we will
probably find excitement and energy as we take the risk of unblocking
the natural flow of energy in our lives. It is like dismantling a dam
inside ourselves, because most of the work involves clearing our own
inner obstacles so that the river of our life can flow unobstructed.
Once we remove the obstacles, we can simply go with the flow, trusting
the changes that follow.(Daily OM)