Closure serves to tie up or sever loose ends,
quiets the mind even when questions have been left unanswered, signifies
the end of an experience, and acknowledges that a change has taken
place.
The period of completion, rather than being just an act of finality, is
also one of transition. When we seek closure, what we really want is an
understanding of what has happened and an opportunity to derive what
lessons we can from an experience. Without closure, there is no
resolution and we are left to grieve, relive old memories to the point
of frustration, or remain forever connected to people from our past. A
sense of completion regarding a situation may also result when we accept
that we have done our best. If you can't officially achieve closure
with someone, you can create completion by participating in a closure
ritual.
Write a farewell letter to that person and then burn your note
during a ceremony. This ritual allows you to consciously honor and
appreciate what has taken place between you and release the experience
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