The hardest thing about saying yes
to the universe is that it means accepting everything life puts in front
of us. Most of us have a habit of going through our days saying no to
the things we don't like and yes to the things we do, and yet,
everything we encounter is our life. We may be afraid that if we say yes
to the things we don't like, we will be stuck with them forever, but
really, it is only through acknowledging the existence of what's not
working for us that we can begin the process of change. So saying yes
doesn't mean indiscriminately accepting things that don't work for us.
It means conversing with the universe, and starting the conversation
with a very powerful word -- yes.
When we say yes to the universe, we enter into a state of trust that
whatever our situation is, we can work with it. We express confidence in
ourselves, and the universe, and we also express a willingness to learn
from whatever comes our way, rather than running and hiding when we
don't like what we see. The question we might ask ourselves is what it
will take for us to get to the point of saying yes. For some of us, it
takes coming up against something we can't ignore, escape, or deny, and
so we are left no choice but to say yes. For others, it just seems a
natural progression of events that leads us to making the decision to
say yes to life.
The first step to saying yes is realizing that in the end it is so much
easier than the alternative. Once we understand this, we can begin
examining the moments when we resist what is happening, and experiment
with occasionally saying yes instead. It might be scary at first, and
even painful at times, but if we continue to say yes to every moment
through the process, we will discover the joy of being in a positive
conversation with a force much bigger than ourselves.( Daily OM)