Everyone Has a Story

 It’s easy to forget sometimes, but everyone has a story to tell — if we take the time to listen. We are so accustomed to hearing the stories of people in the news that we lose track of the fact that the random stranger on the bus also has a fascinating story about where they came from and how they got to be where they are. The sheer variety of paths taken in this world, from farmers to CEOs to homeless people to world travelers, is indicative of how much we can learn from each individual. Sometimes the shy, quiet person at work has the most amazing life story and the biggest dreams. It is up to us to take the time to find out.

Some people travel a path of wealth and privilege, while others struggle with only themselves to rely on. Both have great stories to tell. Each person learns lessons, makes choices, and develops a unique perspective, which only they can claim and share. Even two people who have had very similar lives will have different experiences, leading them to a particular point of view. Each person remains a treasure trove waiting to be explored. When we take the time to ask questions and listen, we find that every person has a fascinating story and an utterly unique perspective from which to tell it.

Bearing this in mind, we have the opportunity to approach the world around us in a new way. There is never any reason to be bored at a party, or on the bus, or in a conversation with a stranger. When we retain the spark of curiosity and the warmth required to open someone up, we always have the makings of a great story right in front of us. All we have to do is ask.(Daily OM)