Depending on what stage we are in our lives, we can sometimes feel
like we ought to know more about who we are or how to live. We may even
berate ourselves for making the same mistakes, or for just not "getting
it," whatever "it" may be. We wonder how our lives would be now, if only
we had “known better.” During moments like these, it is important to
remember that none of us are born with instruction manuals and that
learning lessons is a lifelong journey.
Inherent to our
being born is that we are here to observe, learn, and grow. Accompanying
this is a built-in guarantee that there will be mistakes and
misadventures along the way. And while it is only natural that we may
sometimes become overwhelmed, especially when the lessons keep coming,
it is important to remember that learning to understand yourself and
your world is an ongoing and active process where the journey is more
important than the destination. Every lesson is intended so you can
become more of who you are. And as you grow through this self-discovery,
you begin to create your own instruction manual. The "how’s" and
"why’s" are yours to discover, and part of the beauty of being alive is
that these rules are always changing.
If you feel that you would
like to explore what your personal instruction manual may already say,
then try writing down in order some of the significant events that have
happened to you. It’s also important to take note of what you learned
from each one. When you are done, you may be surprised to discover how
much you are always growing, and that every lesson learned always
informs the next. That being said, there is never any need to be hard on
yourself or think that you should have it all figured out. We always
know as much as we’re meant to know at that moment, and growing into our
fullness is a process that unfolds in divine timing. You and your life
are beautiful works in progress. Discover yourself and embrace your
life’s lessons, and your instruction manual will create itself.