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Monday, 3 March 2025

How Embracing the Negative Can Spark Profound Life Changes

 It always amuses me when I hear people labelling something as ‘negative’ with all its connotations.

As if the negative is something to be ignored or dismissed, do these people, especially some of those newagers, think that negative things will all go away if ignored? That only focusing on the positive will bring about a complete transformation turnaround. What about the old adage, what you resist will persist…?

No. Labeling, invalidating, or dismissing something merely as negative may mean that you have missed the point. For example, if I told you that your kitchen is on fire, would you then turn to me and say something like, “Oh, you’re talking so negatively. I was happy until now…” Of course, you wouldn’t say something so absurd.

In other words, when not facing the negative, it’s not only a failure to understand that this may serve as a warning, something to pay heed to but ultimately, isn’t this also a form of abdicating responsibility, a cop-out?

These people don’t have the realization that if they were willing to confront the related aspects, this could be the platform for a turnaround: life transformation!...<<<Read More>>>...