[Daily OM]: Sometimes it takes us the better
part of a lifetime to discover our life's work, even though we may have
been doing it our whole lives without necessarily realizing it. Our
life's work is not always what we do to make money, although we often
think it should be, and sometimes this way of thinking prevents us from
seeing clearly what it is. It may be the work of having children, caring
for them, and running a household. The way we know our life's work is
by how we feel when we are doing it.
When we are doing our life's work, we feel an uncanny sense of ease and
alignment. This doesn't mean that the work is always easy, and it
doesn't mean that it's the only work we have to do; it just means that
there is a conviction deep inside us that tells us we are in tune with
our innermost self. When we are engaged in our life's work, our bodies
feel more alive, because our energy is devoted to a cause that, in turn,
feeds us. We may be tired after engaging in our life's work, but we are
almost never depleted. We feel grounded in the world, knowing that we
belong here and have something important to offer.
When we are deeply unhappy, depressed, or subject to one illness after
another, this may be due to a sense of disconnection from our life's
work. At times like these, finding the work we are meant to do is an
essential act of healing. Most of us remember a time when we felt fully
engaged in some act of work, service or creativity, and it is here that
we may rediscover the work we are meant to do now. On the other hand, it
may be time to explore what inspires us through volunteering, taking a
class, going back to school, or just doing whatever it is we long to
try. We all have callings, and when we find them, we owe it to ourselves
to nurture and protect them, because while they may or may not be our
livelihood, they are the keys to our wellbeing.