The first thing to keep in mind is that there is only one force in reality. This force created life and sustains it. Hence, Kabbalists (aptly) name it: "the Creator." This force is benevolent in its nature; otherwise it wouldn't create anything to begin with. And to realize its desire to give, it created one, common soul. The only task of this soul is to receive the abundance, the goodness and delights that the Creator wants to give it. According to the Kabbalah, the Creator, the giving force is the spiritual root of the male part of reality, and the soul's desire to receive the abundance is the feminine root of the female part of reality.
But this isn't the end of the story, only its beginning. To give the (single) soul the intended abundance, the soul must become Creatorlike. In doing so, it will have everything that the Creator has - infinity.
For the soul to achieve a Creatorlike state, it must first be detached from the Creator, so as to subsequently achieve that state by itself. If it doesn't achieve it by itself, it will be the Creator's work, not the soul's, and the soul will not have achieved anything in this way.
To teach the soul about giving and receiving and how to reconcile between them, the Creator splits the soul into two halves - a feminine half and a masculine one. Subsequently, these halves are further divided and shattered into billions of pieces. Each such piece is "implanted" into a woman or a man in this world. The feminine pieces are the roots of women's souls in our world, and the masculine pieces are roots of men's souls.
All this leads to one conclusion: the difference between men and women is as the difference between the Creator and the creation, the soul. This essentially different root dictates the essential difference between men and women, physically, emotionally, and in our outlook on life. Put differently, men and women belong to essentially different spiritual systems, and hence we will never bridge the gap between us, as long as try to do it only at the level of this world. To unite, we must unite our roots - Creator and creation .... read more ...
