[Daily OM]: Compassion is the ability to see the
deep connectedness between ourselves and others. Moreover, true
compassion recognizes that all the boundaries we perceive between
ourselves and others are an illusion. When we first begin to practice
compassion, this very deep level of understanding may elude us, but we
can have faith that if we start where we are, we will eventually feel
our way toward it. We move closer to it every time we see past our own
self-concern to accommodate concern for others. And, as with any skill,
our compassion grows most in the presence of difficulty.
We practice small acts of compassion every day, when our loved ones are
short-tempered or another driver cuts us off in traffic. We extend our
forgiveness by trying to understand their point of view; we know how it
is to feel stressed out or irritable. The practice of compassion becomes
more difficult when we find ourselves unable to understand the actions
of the person who offends us. These are the situations that ask us to
look more deeply into ourselves, into parts of our psyches that we may
want to deny, parts that we have repressed because society has labeled
them bad or wrong. For example, acts of violence are often well beyond
anything we ourselves have perpetuated, so when we are on the receiving
end of such acts, we are often at a loss. This is where the real
potential for growth begins, because we are called to shine a light
inside ourselves and take responsibility for what we have disowned. It
is at this juncture that we have the opportunity to transform from
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