[Daily OM]: In the quest to create a gentler,
more loving world, kindness is the easiest tool we can use. Though it is
easy to overlook opportunities to be kind, our lives are replete with
situations in which we can be helpful, considerate, thoughtful, and
friendly to loved ones and associates, as well as strangers. The
touching, selfless acts of kindness that have the most profoundly
uplifting effects are often the simplest: a word of praise, a gentle
touch, a helping hand, a gesture of courtesy, or a smile. Such small
kindnesses represent an unconditional, unrestricted form of love that we
are free to give or withhold at will. When you give the gift of
kindness, whether in the form of assistance, concern, or friendliness,
your actions create a beacon of happiness and hope that warms people's
hearts.
The components of kindness are compassion, respect, and generosity. Put
simply, kindness is the conscious act of engaging others in a positive
way without asking whether those individuals deserve to be treated
kindly. All living beings thrive on kindness. A single, sincere
compliment can turn a person's entire world around. Holding a door or
thanking someone who has held a door for you can inspire others to
practice politeness and make already kind individuals feel good about
their efforts. Smiling at people you meet -- even those who make you
feel like frowning -- can turn a dreary encounter into a delightful one,
for both of you. Every kind act has a positive influence on the
individual who has performed said act as well as on the recipient,
regardless of whether the act is acknowledged. Kindness brings about
more kindness and slowly but surely takes a positive toll on humanity.
Weaving the thread of kindness into your everyday life can be as easy as
choosing to offer a hearty "Good morning" and "Good night" to your
coworkers or neighbors, a stranger on the street, or the grocery store
clerk. When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily disconnected from
your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited from your
kindness. Being fully present in each moment of your life facilitates
kindness as it increases your awareness of the people around you. You'll
discover that each act of kindness you engage in makes the world, in
some small way, a better place.