[Daily OM]: Repeated bouts of adversity are an
unavoidable aspect of human existence. We battle against our inner
struggles or outer world forces, and in many cases, we emerge on the
opposite side of struggle stronger and better equipped to cope with the
challenges yet to come. However, we can occasionally encounter trials
that seem utterly hopeless. We strike at them with all of our creativity
and perseverance, hoping desperately to bring about change, only to
meet with the same results as always. Our first instinct in such
situations is often to push harder against the seemingly immovable
obstruction before us, assuming that this time we will be met with a
different outcome. But staying power and stamina net us little when the
same choices consistently garner the same results. A change in
perspective, behavior, or response can do so much more to help us move
past points where no amount of effort seems sufficient to overcome the
difficulties before us.
Whether our intention is to change ourselves or some element of the
world around us, we cannot simply wish for transformation or hope that
our lives will be altered through circumstance. If our patterns of
thought and behavior remain unchanged, our lives will continue to unfold
much as they have previously. Patterns in which fruitless efforts
prevail can be overcome with self examination and courage. It is our
bravery that allows us to question the choices we have made thus far and
to channel our effort into innovation. Asking questions and making
small adjustments to your thought processes and behaviors will help you
discover what works, so you can leave that which does not work behind
you. To break free from those unconscious patterns that have long held
sway over your actions and reactions, you will likely have to challenge
your assumptions on a most basic level. You must accept once and for all
that your beliefs with regard to cause and effect may no longer be in
accordance with your needs.
Stagnation is often a sign that great changes are on the horizon.
Courting the change you wish to see in yourself and in the world around
you is a matter of acknowledging that only change begets change. The
results you so ardently want to realize are well within the realm of
possibility, and you need only step away from the well-worn circular
path to explore the untried paths that lie beyond it.