When we want to see deeply into the
heart and mind of another person, soul seeing, also called soul gazing,
allows us to see their soul. The soul is the purest expression of an
individual and is not bound by physical forms or fleeting emotions.
Through a simple art that involves looking deeply into a partner's eyes,
soul seeing can show you a person's inner beauty that you might
otherwise miss. It is possible for someone who appears cold to have a
warm, giving, nurturing soul or someone of average appearance to have a
beautiful soul. Soul seeing is a way of looking past shapes, sizes,
attitudes, and behavior to see the real individual that lies beneath the
surface. It allows you to see the true essence of another person, the
radiance of their being, and their spirit within.
Soul seeing is accomplished by sitting face to face with another person.
It is helpful to first state your intention before you begin. As you
stare softly into each other's eyes without stopping to look away, each
of your souls is revealed to the other. Try not to look for anything in
particular or seek traits you're hoping to find. Simply let the other
person's soul reveal itself to you. After twenty minutes have passed,
stay where you are and share a period of silent reflection with your
partner for two minutes. You may have suddenly seen your partner's inner
nature as clearly as a bright day, or you may need to meditate on your
experience before you feel comfortable with your impressions. Either
way, soul seeing can be a wonderfully intimate and shared experience.
So little of who each of us is can be captured by our appearance or
personality. The thoughts, fears, desires, and longings that are part of
what makes us whole are not always written across our faces. Often, the
most surprising thing you may learn while soul seeing is that while you
and the other person may appear on the surface to be quite different,
you actually share many of the same inner qualities. And then there is
the unique beauty that resides within that is longing to be revealed to
another who is willing to see. Soul seeing can help you experience the
people in your life as they truly are, beyond any mental barriers or
physical limitations.[Daily OM]