[Daily OM]: When it comes to our families, we
sometimes see only our differences. We see the way our parents cling to
ideas we don't believe, or act in ways we try not to copy. We see how
practical one of our siblings is and wonder how we can be from the same
gene pool. Similarly, within the human family we see how different we
are from each other, in ways ranging from gender and race to
geographical location and religious beliefs. It is almost as if we think
we are a different species sometimes. But the truth is, in our personal
families as well as the human family, we really are the same.
A single mother of four living in Africa looks up at the same stars and
moon that shine down on an elderly Frenchman in Paris. A Tibetan monk
living in India, a newborn infant in China, and a young couple saying
their marriage vows in Indiana all breathe the same air, by the same
process. We have all been hurt and we have all cried. Each one of us
knows how it feels to love someone dearly. No matter what our political
views are, we all love to laugh. Regardless of how much or how little
money we have, our hearts pump blood through our bodies in the same way.
With all this in common, it is clear we are each individual members of
the same family. We are human.
Acknowledging how close we all are, instead of clinging to what
separates us, enables us to feel less alone in the world. Every person
we meet, see, hear, or read about is a member of our family. We are
truly not alone. We also begin to see that we are perfectly capable of
understanding and relating to people who, on the surface, may seem very
different from us. This awareness prevents us from disconnecting from
people on the other side of the tracks, and the other side of the world.
We begin to understand that we must treat all people for what they are
-- family.