Remember ... when you receive guidance or insight from a loved one in 'the spirit world' ... it is their OPINION only. It is not their intention for you to act out their guidance to the letter. Their guidance is meant as an aid ... to help you obtain clarity or another viewpoint on a situation.
Imagine if your loved one was there with you, in the room, would you have necessarily taken their advice ...? You must always remember this simple rule ... the intention of the spirit world is not to interfere with earthly matters ... nor do they wish to be seen as godly or angelic or all seeing ... their role is purely an advisory aspect ... when you most need a second opinion or additional viewpoint! - Matthew James