"Listening is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. You can
see that when you think how the friends that really listen to us are the
ones we move toward, and we want to sit in their radius as though it
did us good, like ultraviolet rays."-- Brenda Ueland
How well do we communicate with others? Often, when we are interacting
with others, our attention in both speaking and listening is focused on
meeting our own needs.
Our communication skills improve when we can open to be aware of the
needs of the other person. When we listen, we can release the filters
that serve our own needs for security and receive the message with our
compassionate heart. And when we speak, we can choose words that the
listener is able to receive. True communication happens when we
harmonize with the other individual.
"So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then
you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what
is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it."-- Jiddu Krishnamurti
"The first duty of love is to listen."-- Paul Tillich