It is difficult to understand, even with hindsight, how the choices we have made have added up to our current situation, but it is a good idea to examine the story we tell ourselves. If we tend to regard ourselves as having failed, this will block our ability to succeed. We have the power to change the story we tell ourselves by acknowledging that in the past, we did our best, and we exhibited many positive qualities and had many fine moments on our path to the present moment. We also can recognize that we have learned from our experiences, and this will help us with our current choices.
When we do this kind of work on how we view our past self, we make it
possible for the future to be based on a positive self-assessment. This
inner shift may allow us to get out of the cycle that’s been keeping us
stuck. Now we can declare our intentions to the universe, knowing that
we have done the inner work necessary to allow our lives to change. Let
today be the day to end cycles and enter into a new way of being. (Daily OM)