Life can take us on a roller coaster
ride full of highs and lows and twists and turns. Even for those of us
who enjoy unexpected thrills, it's frightening to suddenly find
ourselves heading for a deep plunge. Yet, it happens to all of us. At
these moments, it is important to remember that you are not alone in
your experiences. No matter how brave, strong, or levelheaded we are,
sometimes, we all get scared.
Our fears may revolve around our physical safety, particularly if we are
not feeling well, living under difficult circumstances, or doing work
that exposes us to hazardous conditions. Or, we may be experiencing
financial woes that are causing us to be fearful about making ends meet.
We may also fear the loss of a loved one who is sick, or we may be
scared of never finding someone special to spend our life with. We may
be scared to start at a new school, begin a different job, move to a new
town, or meet new people. Whatever our fears are, they are valid, and
we do not need to feel ashamed or embarrassed that we are, at times,
afraid.
It may be comforting to know that everyone gets scared, and it is
perfectly OK. Sometimes just acknowledging our fears is enough to make
us feel better. And while it sometimes takes a lot more to ease our
mind, we can console ourselves with the knowledge that life can be scary
at times. Giving ourselves permission to be scared lets us move through
our fears so we can let it go.It also makes it alright to share our
fears with others. Sharing our apprehensions with other people can make
our fears less overwhelming because we are not letting them grow inside
of us as pent up emotions.Sharing our fears also can lighten our burden
because we are not carrying our worries all by ourselves. Remember that
you are not alone. (Daily OM)