[Daily OM]: Though much human fear is based on
uncertainty, foreknowledge does not always ease the mind. It is often
when our futures look brightest that our resolve crumbles and we veer
off course. We can recognize that success is on the horizon, but we
cannot discern how it will impact our lives. Because success can affect
us in complex and unpredictable ways, taking us out of the status quo
and pushing us into new circumstances that test our limits, the mere
idea of attaining the life of our dreams can shake us to the core. Fear
of the future is often closely intermingled with the fear that growing
into your own potential will both change you irrevocably and force you
to face situations for which you aren't ready. It is normal to
unconsciously project ahead into the future and see success as a great
weight bearing down on you. It is important to remember, however, that
all the life changes the future will bring will be implemented into your
life slowly and gradually.
When we visualize the future, we tend to focus on outcomes rather than
the steps we will take to reach those conclusions. Thus, we may forget
that growth is progressive. Your soul longs to fulfill its purpose -- a
purpose you agreed to in the timelessness in which you existed before
your birth. Because of this, neither you nor the universe will set any
circumstance before you that you are not capable of handling. Fear of
the future can paralyze you, preventing you from living in the moment
and from working toward your goals in a mindful manner. The key to
conquering this fear lies in awareness. When you can identify the
irrational thoughts that frighten you, you can replace them with
logical, self-affirming ideas. If you are afraid that you won't be
satisfied when you accomplish a certain goal, remember that no one
achievement represents an end in and of itself. And if you fear
recognition or feel unworthy, consider that even now you are deserving
of praise.
Should fear of the future strike you as you strive to create, to excel,
to grow, and to evolve, assert your courage. Assume that your fear is
based on a false assumption and quell it with facts. Try to disregard
past patterns and focus on the present by stilling the inner voice that
comments critically on all you do. Tell yourself that the inevitability
of your success is based not on luck or a universal mistake but on your
already established talents, drive, imagination, and inner strength.
Each time you overcome your fear of the future, you chip away at its
very foundations. Eventually, you will clear a gap through which you can
gaze upon the future with unhindered optimism.