Often, we expect ourselves to recover quickly from difficult or painful circumstances. When we do not or cannot, we may feel emotionally inept or hopeless. The evolution of the soul, however, is an ongoing process that can take many lifetimes. It is a matter of accepting that even when we do our best there are going to be situations, people, and outcomes that we cannot control. It is also important to remember that your experiences now may be setting the groundwork for future healing -- whether in this lifetime or the next one. The more you release in each time, the more you grow and the more your soul will evolve.
Although it is not always possible to work through all of our issues
in a single lifetime, it is important that we confront what we are
called to face in this life and do the work we need to do. It is also
important to remember that the most effective way to let your soul grow
is to be an active participant in life. Be present in each moment and
your soul will do this work for you. (Daily OM)